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How to Use a Strapless Strap On

By Jasmine McCloud 4 years ago. Posted in Sex Toy Guides
How to Use a Strapless Strap On

Wondering how to use a strapless strap on? Here's everything you need to know!

Have you ever wanted to indulge in the wonders of wearing a strap on, but you're not a fan of all those awkward straps and chafing harnesses? Sometimes in the heat of the moment, you decide to whip out the strap on, but fumbling with buckles and turning every which way to get bits and pieces wound around your legs and waist.

I know I don't want to be fiddling about with all that admin in the middle of getting hot and heavy. Unfortunately, these are a necessary evil when it comes to using a strap on ... Or is it?

Well, this is where strapless strap ons come into the mix! But wait ... Isn't there meant to be a strap? Heck no! Strapless strap ons are not too dissimilar from the well-known and beloved double-ended dildo!

What's the difference between a double-ended dildo and a strapless strap on?

The difference comes in with shape. A double-ended dildo is typically straight or slightly curved where a strapless strap on tends to end in a right angle.

One end of the strap on is a dildo used to penetrate one partner, while the other end is a shorter, more bulbous sort of dildo that the giving partner holds inside their vagina with their Kegel muscles. That means you need to have a strong pelvic floor!

If you don't know what Kegel muscles are, they're the sling-shaped band of muscles running from your spine to the front of your body behind the pubic bone. Here's a diagram:

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A strong pelvic floor will hold the strapless strap on dildo in place

To practice engaging your Kegel muscles and get a feel of where they are, try stopping your urine flow mid-stream. The muscles you engage while doing that are your Kegels!

If you're looking to strengthen your Kegel muscles to make strapless strap-on sex phenomenal, try using Ben Wa balls. These are small balls you insert into the vagina and hold in place by engaging your muscles. Check out the guides to using Ben Wa balls here on the Heat and browse the range we stock here at Adulttoymegastore.

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How does a strapless strap on dildo work?

While the giving partner holds the strapless strap on inside themselves the internal dildo stimulates their G-Spot, and does so, even more, when they thrust and use the other end! This allows for some double-time mutual stimulation for both partners... no wonder these sex toys sell so well!

So, now for the nitty-gritty. Strapless strap ons are able to be used by anyone with a vagina as long as they can hold it in!

When it comes to wearing one it is a good idea to be warmed up first. When aroused, the vagina dilates and self-lubricates. This will make it easier to insert the strap on and easier to 'hold' onto. So, before putting one in, get down with your partner and engage in some fun foreplay! This is also beneficial for your partner. Being aroused will help the 'act of receiving' go a lot smoother too.

If you both want a little help when it comes to getting lubed up, choose one of the many waterbased lubricants that we sell here at Adulttoymegastore. Waterbased lubricants are a great universal lube as they are compatible with any sex toy and are absorbed by the skin, so they won't leave a mess!

Apply some waterbased lube to each end of the strap on so it can fit slide in nice and snug and be comfortable for everyone! If the strap on is going to be received anally a silicone-based lubricant could be the best course of action! Silicone based lubricants last longer than waterbased ones as they are not absorbed into the skin when rubbed in.

However! Silicone lubricants cannot be used with silicone toys. The silicone in each item interacts and the integrity of your toy will be compromised. So, if you're thinking of using silicone lube, make sure you are using it with a toy it won't interact with. Since the rectum does not produce its own lubricant (unlike the vagina) so a silicone lubricant is one of the most popular options. Check out our whole range of silicone lubricants here.

However, if you do have a silicone strapless strap on and want to use it anally, you can still use a waterbased lube. You might just have to reapply it a bit more often.

Once everything is all lubed up and everyone is in the mood for some loving, you're ready to 'put on' your strapless strap on and get down to it! Wet Stuff Gold 75mlWet Stuff Gold 75ml$6.95Shop NowUberlube Luxury Lubricant 50mlUberlube Luxury Lubricant 50ml$12.95Shop NowWet Stuff Secrets 250g PumpWet Stuff Secrets 250g Pump$12.95Shop Now

The best strapless strap-ons for beginners

Now that you know how to use a strapless strap on, it's time to buy the right one for you! Here are my top three recommendations for beginners to help you get started, or you can browse Adulttoymegastore's entire range of strapless strap ons to find one that sparks your interest.

1. The Gal Pal

Don't let the name put you off. This anatomically designed strapless strap on is intended to stimulate both partners when in use. Made with ergonomics in mind, both of you will be enraptured in ecstasy when this toy joins you in the bedroom! The Gal Pal is made from 100% body-safe platinum silicone, is hypoallergenic, and it is also dishwasher safe! Talk about easy cleanup. Platinum Premium Silicone The Gal PalPlatinum Premium Silicone The Gal Pal$44.95Shop Now

2. Fetish Fantasy Elite Strapless Strap On

This strapless strap on will bring you and your partner some hot and heavy hands-free action! This toy is curved to stay securely inside the giving partner during passionate lovemaking. This dildo is boilable and dishwasher safe, making them super quick and easy to clean up. Coming in at 8 inches this toy is sure to please! Fetish Fantasy Elite 8 Inch Strapless StrapOnFetish Fantasy Elite 8 Inch Strapless Strap-on$64.95Shop Now

3. Feeldoe Slim

The Feeldoe Slim is contoured to fit the body, this strapless strap on also includes a vibrating bullet to take your pleasure to the next level! This toy is also boilable, making it easy and convenient to sterilise after use. Tantus Feeldoe SlimTantus Feeldoe Slim$138.95Shop Now

Try a strapless strap-on for double the pleasure

A strapless strap on is a lot more challenging to get the hang of than a normal strap on with a harness, but for double the pleasure, it's worth the practice to get it feeling just right!

If you're ready to dive right in, buy one of the strapless strap ons from this list and get on to it! Otherwise, if harnessed fun is more your thing, check out Adulttoymegastore's range of strap on dildos and harnesses and add something shiny and new to your collection today.

Learn more about strap on sex toys and positions

Want to expand your knowledge and become a strap-on pro? Check out these articles written by our sex toy experts:

Editor’s note:

This article was originally published on 6 December 2019 and was updated in July 2021 for relevance and comprehensiveness. The information in this article has been fact checked and reviewed for accuracy by Adulttoymegastore’s team of content specialists and sexual wellness experts, including Sex Educator Emma Hewitt.

Content disclaimer:

Adulttoymegastore does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment for illness. Any information published on this website, either by Adulttoymegastore of its authors, is not intended to be a substitute for medical advice, and you should not take any action before consulting with a medical professional.

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